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how can i get my friends mum to like me?

Drama, Tears, Smile & Heartbreak asked:


my friend is in the money part of life, her mum has a good job lives in a big house in the country & i am not so lucky to have the luxury of money they do, my parents dont work and i rent a flat in a town..

i never ask to borrow money except maybe 2/3 pounds, and if i do borrow money i always pay back..
where as with all her other friends they are in the same situation as me, they dont have much money. But they also borrow money but never pay back, they take things off her & drink her alchol and use her, i do none of that!.. i also get the people she wants at her partys there for her, none of her other friends do that!..

yet her mum hates me, i have done nothing wrong except also not turn upto her birthday about 9months ago.. and i mean thats along time ago and i have apologised for that.

my friend invites me to places but doesnt tell me her mums there cos she knows i wont go but when i get there her mum calls me names and shouts horrible things at me, she also was going to make me walk 3miles to her house at 12am! in the dark on my own.. she makes fun of the fact i havent got money and that im a townie!.. when the fact is before she met my friends dad she was a townie with no money! & she also doesnt like me because i have no parents! i cant help the fact i was put into a childrens home as a child and have been bought up by my nan!.. i dont understand her “/

Victoria

How come a lot of women aren’t aware of how worthless they are?

The Equalist asked:


Let me first state that a lot of women do not fit this category. I am not saying all women are like this. So if you’re a woman and don’t fit in this category, it’s not about you.

What I’m about to write is nothing new. I’ve heard many men say “if it weren’t for the sex, many women would be completely worthless to men”. Before one simply writes it off as just some “chauvinism” or “misogyny”, if you actually analyze the meaning behind that statement, you’ll see a lot of it is true. I’m in my mid 20′s and I’ve messed with a lot of women in my life. And when I look back on relationships in hindsight, I realize that in 100% of the relationships I did most of the “work”. As in, driving, paying for things, etc.

I’ll give one example of one girl. I dated her for a short period, and I’d talk to her about past relationships (I know that’s not always the best thing to do). She’d tell me that she’d get with guys and how she liked how guys took care of her. Told me all these great things about guys she had been with. She couldn’t cook, didn’t do laundry, didn’t clean, didn’t do anything. While the guy paid the rent/mortgage, the car note, did the driving, took her out, said lovely things to her, paid for all the dinners, did the cooking at home, mowed the lawn, etc. I was befuddled, so I just asked her “what did you do in the relationship?” She just had a blank stare on her face and couldn’t answer. You see, these guys were obviously in the relationship only for the ***. As are many guys. While she was in the relationship for all the things I mentioned, plus the ***. It’s not a fair trade-off. She was the same way with me. And many women are just like her. It’s nothing new.

And I told her, “you’re nothing but a ****** with a body attached.” To no surprise, our relationship ended shortly afterward.

You won’t find it the other way around — men that do nothing in a relationship but just have sex, and the woman is willing to support him and pay for everything just for ***. Because men don’t have that “luxury” to be that way, if you can even call it that.

Your thoughts…
t: I think this question may have hit you close to home. How can I be “selfish” if I just stated I was doing all the courting, paying for things, and most of the work? Sounds like you’re selfish for thinking that’s not enough to please you. So instead of men doing 75% of the work in a relationship, you think it should be 100%? Obviously you aren’t in to the 50/50 thing.

There have been women I were with that cooked and did great things for me. But even in those relationships I did at least 60% of the work.
Sharifa: That depiction you made doesn’t apply to me, since I contribute more to a relationship than just ***. You fail.
mama outlaw: You just want to use men to leech off of. If I choose to speak out against female leeches, I can do that. The fact that you contribute nothing to a relationship except view men as ATM machines & servants shows your level of selfishness and stinginess.

I only think a relationship should be 50/50.

Driving a car to transport a family around is a major contribution to a relationship. But you wouldn’t know that, because many women don’t have a clue about the value of a car or how one works. Taking the bus everywhere would be at odds be counterproductive.

I’m not in to traditional “chivalry”, AKA being a woman’s slave. And more and more men today think the way I do. So do many women. Many women want to contribute to the relationship, and choose not to be selfish like yourself. You type of women are a dying breed.

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How do I get over hating my in laws?

rosemary d asked:


I have been married for 22yrs.Saved all our money to buy a great house. My husbands sister and 3 kids came from another country to stay with us until her husband retired from the military. She and the kids were here for 3 months which I love her very much, then her husband came and all hell broke. He called the police and wanted me arrested for discrimination which the police told them he had no grounds, plus one of the kids (18 yrs old) took a swing at me and missed. The police wanted to arrest the 18 yr old , I didn’t press charges but asked them to leave. Now they have there own place to live with the help of us paying part of there rent. The major problem I have is when ever my hubby has a day off of work either her or the brother in law monopolizes his day. I understand this is a new country and getting adjusted to everything will take time. Now they want me to come to there luxury apartment, that has been furnished by everybody from churches, organizations. They have things I wish I could have, but I had to work for everything I own. I am having a very hard time to let by gowns be by gowns. I refuse to go to any gatherings where they will be. My hubby said I should let all of this go, but after all the hell I went through for 4 months and damages the kids done to our home I am hanging on to all this ****. What should I do??? I need help fast before I file for a divorce.

Cindy

How do I add a shower to the tub in a RENTED HOME ?

dlh asked:


I rent the home so I can’t tear apart the wall, This needs to go completely on the outside. I have looked at hardware stores for an adapter of some sort. Everything seems to require rebuilding the wall or an entire drop-in shower/tub combo. It would be great if this could be a temporary fix that could be “undone” without too much trouble when I move out.

Dawn

How do you sell a house using a lease option agreement?

moteselives asked:


I want to lease my home with an option to purchase. I want to know if I can do this by myself or if I need a realtor. I know how much I want for selling price, option payment and rent per month. Thanks in advance.

Roberta

I was asked to write a biography Of Person that I admire So I wrote About Gardner What do u think?

Sweet angel asked:


My name is Chritopher Gardner. I am rich,a millionaire. In my brokerage firm, I have recently sold a minority share in a multimilion dollars deal. To become what I am now, I had to go through many difficult stages.
Stages Of my life that I have never forgotten and I shall never forget, because they are deeply carved in my memory.
It all began when I attainted manhood and my mother introduced me to a man who,she said, was my father.
How could that man be so, as he had never lived with us?!
All I remember about my childhood was that my mother had always been working and struggling to make a living and preserve my safety and stablity.
She was determined to raise my social status as an American citizen.
Sometimes, I asked her why I did not have a father like all other children; but she never accepted to speak tht thruth.
However,shortly after I had met my father for the first time, she told me eerything.
She said that my father had deserted us because he had been jobless; and when he had reached a state utter despair to provide for us , he had decided to leave us behind.
At that very moment, I decided to obliterate mypast as a desrted child and made up my mond that if I had children, I would givethem a safe and prosperous life. That was the first Part of my life.
The second part began when linda and I got married.
Ayear afterwards, we had our son, Christopher.
We all lived in San Fransisco and our life was rather peaceful. In 1981, I invested our entire lefe saving in buying a new medical device.
That was a portable bone-density scanners, a revolutionary machine which, I had throught, would give us too much money and would make us lead aa better life.
I bought many scanners of which I had to sell at least two per a month for the rent, the living necessities and our son’s day care.
Unfortunately, doctors and hospitals considered that scanner as unnecessary and expensive luxury.
Besides that device gave a slightly denser picture than an x-ray the price; the reason why I could not sell all my scanners easily.
So, I could not pay tje tax-bills, I could not pay the months of rent we owed and I could not even pay off all of those tickets under my windshield wiper.
For my taxes, I had to fike extra extensions; which meant more interests and penalties.
Every evening, when i was back home, Linda and I had bitter quarrels over that.
I usually begged her to relax and trust me.
I even promised her to find a job so as to overcome our hardships.
But she didn’t care, and said that she was no longer happy with me.
One day, as I was walking along the streets with my scanner in my hand, to do my daily sales calls, I came across a friend of mine.
He was well-off and had a brand new Ferrari.
I asked him what he did and how he did to have all that; he said that he was stockbroker.
Tomy delight, he said that one needed to be good with numbers and good with people.
I still remember I couldn’t sleep that night as I couldn’t help thinking of that job, a stockbroker!
Why not me?! I felt that I had the right abilities and the strong will necessary to succeed in that career.
The morning after, while Linda and I were getting ready to go out, i Told her about that promissing job.
She simply laughed at me and ironically asked if I would not bean astronaut.
I didn’t care about her and I filled an application form for an internship.
I went to Dean Witter Reynolds firm to drop my application off personally and to make acquaintance with the Witter Resource head, Jay wistle.
In fact, I wanted to show him thar I was good with numbers and good with people, but at that moment he was bound to take a taxi .
Deliberately I shared the same taxi with him.
While i was telling him about my intersts and abilities, Jay Wistle was handling a puzzle cube which was called the gift sensation of 1981.
He was twisting and turning the cube to get the same color on each side, but unsuccessfully I asked him to let me try, but he said that I would not do it because nobody had done it before.
You can’t imagine how astonished he was when I put the cube right on every side; and in no time at all.
I am sure, I succeeded to convince him of my intelligence.
When I got back home, was disappointed as I found out that my wife had taken all her things and had left home.
What made me more furious was that she had taken Christopher with her.
In in deed, I was at aloss,but i decided to get my son back as soon as possible. While i was thinking about that, the telephone rang. It was Jay wistle from dean witter who asked me to be in the firm as quickly as possible to sit for an interview.
The following day, a series of misfortunes coincided to ovrerturn my life. After I had got christopher back, I wore some shabby clothes and began painting my apartment while I was doing that,the land lord knock at the door to tell me that I did not pay for the four months of rent I owed, he would kick me out. Shortly afterwards, two policemen came and arrested me for failure to pay off the parking tickets. I had to spend the night at the police station because they did not believe me when I gave them a check with the sun of money I owned,they said they had to give a call to linda to take care of christopher. The following morning, just as they had done their verification, I left the police station .
It was exactly quarter to ten, and I had to run all the way to Dean Witter where I had to take an Interview at quarter past ten, of course all in m shabby clothes full of paint.
To convince the interviewers of the reason why I was dressed like that I spoke, nothing but the thruth.
They laugheda bit, but they admired my frankness, earnestness and diligence.
I was accepted as a trainee and they gave me a sheet where all the program was explained.
In fact the program took every six mouths, and only one intern was hired at the end of the program from a pool of twenty.
However, if you weren’t that lucky one, you could not even apply for the six mouths training to another brokerage.
Although they didn’t give salaries to trainees, I was firmly determined to go ahead, as I had developped a strong ambition about that career.
The only resource I had for the six months were my six scanners ,which I still tried to sell.
Meanwhile, my son and I moved to a motel because I could not pay for the rent.
I also had to look after my christopher since the moment his mother had left us and had gone to New york to seek a better life.
At dean Witter, we were twenty interns we were asked to call the maximum of companies and convince them to be potential clients.
We had to use all our abilities to familiarize them with our packages .
We had to match their needs and goals to one of firm’s many financial plans.
In other words as the number of calls increases, the number of dollars in the firm’s pocket also increases.
So, who ever brought in the most money after six mouths was usually hired .
All the interns worked till seven , but I had to leave at four to pck up Christopher .
So, I ha to do in six hours what they had to do in nine.
In order not to waste any time I was not hanging up the phone inn between calls and I realized that by doing that I gained another ten minutes a day.
Besides, I didn’t drink any water so I didn’t waste anytime in the bathroom.
During four months, every thing seemed to go as we wished.
Everyday, I took Christopher to the daycare before I went tomy internship.
At four, I picked him up and we both did our daily sales calls of the scanners till we sold them all.
Sometimes, I took Christopher to play basketball, and all the time I gave him such advices as one should have a strong will and should struggle to achieve one’s goal in life.
Actually, we were happy as father and son.
As I had said before, everything seemed to go fine till one day, that day when a letter brought me back to earth.
It was about taxes I had to pay, and if I didn’t pay them the governement would stick their hands into my bank account and take all my money.
What a disaster! The governement took all the money that I had.
I still remember That day, there was only twenty one dollars and thirty tree cents left in my bank account, Iwas completly broke.
Consequencly, I was unable to pay for the motel, so we had to leave it and we became homless.
Christopher and I were once forced to spend a night in a public bathroom. We tried other places such as Glide Memorial, a church where we had to share a dormitory with hundreds of homless persons.
So,I learned to finish my work quickly if I wanted to find a spot at glide where to spend the night.
I even went to a blood center and sold my blood for twenty six dollars.
I bought a light bulb which was needed to repair the scanner I had once lost and luckily found with tramp who took it for a time machine.
I sold the scanner for two hundred and fifty dollars which meant four weeks of oxygen.
We spent that night at a hotel instead of going back to the church place.
Two days afterwards, while I was working as usual, I was called to the chairman’s office.
There he announced the most exciting news I had ever heard in my life: I was the one they had chosen for the job.
Yes, I was the who had it.
I shall never forget that moment when I burst into tears, tears Of happiness I had been pursuing for a long time.
My life began to change positively since the moment I took that job.
During all the years I was working in Dean Witter, I was devoting my income to the upkeep and improvement of my career.
In 1987, I founded the investment firm Gardner Rich, My own brokeragefirm where my winning are now exceeding millions of dollars.

Samuel

My parents are landlords but shouldn’t be – how to tell them?

Cece asked:


I’m married, have a child, and we rent part of a duplex from my parents. Previous to us, my sister had rented the duplex from them however she kept the place in a filthy & horrible condition. My husband and I had to fix it up when we moved in and we’ve been here ever since.

I’ve noticed that my parents are terrible landlords – something I always suspected in the past (they’ve been renting out properties for a few years now), but didn’t see firsthand until now. They don’t have money to fix unexpected emergencies that comes with owning an older home, lack a lot of etiquette and manners when it comes to dealing with people, and only do “band-aid” fixes on major problems because they don’t want to spend the money on it. Example – the foundation is going bad. It’s to the point now that we can’t even close the bedroom door, or the guest bathroom door. It’s not too bothersome for us since we are a small family here, but it will become a problem if our front door starts to be affected. My parents want to just “shave” the doors down so they close.
Our A/C is terribly old and inefficient and they have been told that it needs to be replaced, but again it’s costly so they don’t want to deal with it and instead put in a storm door thinking it would help. There’s a lot of little examples like this.

Now, because they are my parents, I don’t expect them to rush out and fix everything knowing they don’t have the money. We try to fix things around here that we can do ourselves and pay for it on our own with no complaints. But I’m envisioning what will happen AFTER we leave – when they no longer have the luxury of renting to family who would be more understanding and less likely to complain. If we were regular strange tenants, we would’ve had every right to be angry at the lack of action on our landlords’ behalf. And my parents don’t think they “owe” anyone these fixes because they’re “too expensive”. Well, in my eyes, this is just what comes with the territory – you have to be prepared to fix emergencies or other things when it is YOUR property. I really do think that they shouldn’t be in the business of renting out property any more to people – because I can honestly see them being sued by someone who won’t take no for an answer. How should I get on the subject? Or should I even bother?
No **** I choose to live here, if you would’ve read the question you would’ve said is that my concern is for AFTER we leave.
LOL I can’t believe “Bubbles” made a new account to back up her point – Laura your brand new today and just so happened to answer my question and no one else’s huh? Nice try.

Samantha

What Age do you have to be to live alone in a rental home?

Nooby asked:


I really need to know what age you need to be to rent a home living alone in
Queensland,Australia

Minimum age, i thought it was 16 but my friend thinks its older

Thanks for help.

Raul

Know of any town homes for rent on Long Island?

Angie 21 asked:


Moving out in couple of months and was wondering if anyone knew of any websites listing town homes on long island in new york. Im trying to avoid going to a realtor. Thanks!

Mary

in oregon, can a landlord raise the rent on a mfg. home space when I signed a 5 year lease?

Jack W asked:


lease allowed for increases for things like water, sewer and trash increases that were included in the space rent, in addition to the monthly rent charge.

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